Being selfish is not always a bad thing

It is true that sometimes the selfish always win, always succeed. The good do their best and work as hard as they can but they never reach to the level of success of the selfish people.

Being selfless at times is a good thing but putting others first at all times, does not do any good to you either. You need to put yourself first MOST of the time to achieve your dreams and goals in life.

The reason why selfish people win is because they know what they want and don't allow anyone to stand in their way, which drives them to success but what will be nice is that they don't do so, at the expense of others.

 https://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/10-great-ways-deal-with-selfish-people.html

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  1. Unknown2 March 2018 at 04:43

    Being selfish was never a bad thing, you got to look after yourself because no one will. Look after yourself always

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  2. Unknown2 March 2018 at 04:45

    Being selfish was never a bad thing, you got to look after yourself because no one will. Look after yourself always

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    1. Unknown2 March 2018 at 06:08

      Its a good thing to put yourself first.

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  3. Careforfree2 March 2018 at 05:10

    Sometimes looking after yourself, having your back is mistaken to being selfish

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  4. Unknown2 March 2018 at 05:18

    Indeed. It have been discovered that selfish people have less stress than other people, because they don't worry much.

    I guess I'm selfish too ☺

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    1. Unknown2 March 2018 at 06:11

      True. Cause they focus more on what makes them happy.

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  5. Sivenathi2 March 2018 at 19:32

    We should all learn to be selfless... But it's also important to be selfish sometimes and focus on ourselves!

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    1. Unknown4 March 2018 at 10:04

      Yes, it is not wrong to do so; to sometimes be selfless and sometimes selfish too.

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  6. Unknown4 March 2018 at 11:15

    Yes it may be useful at times but I think agree with Sivenathi.

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  7. Unknown6 March 2018 at 01:45

    I agree but by being selfish most times may cost u potential friendships. U need people to celebrate the success u have achieved through selfish means but who will u celebrate it with if u hurt the same people along the way?

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    1. Unknown11 March 2018 at 12:32

      Yeah,Celebrating your success which you achieved at the expense of others is NEVER okay.

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  8. Unknown8 March 2018 at 13:20

    I used to sacrifice my own happiness in order to make others happy and that never worked well for me. Being selfish and focusing on your goal is sometimes the best thing to do.

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    1. Unknown11 March 2018 at 12:36

      Yes, it does eventually hurt us to be selfless which is why most people just prefer to not care about others but themselves.

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    2. Unknown11 March 2018 at 12:36

      Yes, it does eventually hurt us to be selfless which is why most people just prefer to not care about others but themselves.

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