"This is not for us"




You don't just go to bed faithful and then wake up with adulterous morning plans, deciding that "this is not for us". Most of us think that cheating is the ultimate act of relationship betrayal.
But, let’s get real — people don’t just suddenly decide to trash their marriage vows like that out of nowhere.

It starts with the mini betrayals that our divorced parents forgot to look out for, things like:
  1. Staying in the relationship for the wrong reasons; your children, statuses, etc. but not for love.
  2. Having secret relationships; sharing your deepest thoughts with your ex's who are still friends, co-workers, etc.
  3. Hiding money from your partner,
  4. You complain about your partner to other people, undermine your partner in public
  5. Emotionally dishonest; never share your deepest feelings and just say I love you" because it feels right.
With how people divorce nowadays, makes us scared to even think about marriage. How love was back in the days and now is different But hey I still do want to get married. Because I still believe in that love.
https://www.mamamia.com.au/divorced-after-20-years/

Comments

  1. Careforfree17 March 2018 at 09:15

    I so believe in love too and somehow I still wanna get married

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